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    I started having sex at very young age i was 13 and i had sex with my aunts friend who was 35 without condom. Even though she's my far away aunt She and I are every close so she knows about everything. These 4 years passed I encountered having sex with lots of older men many of them my aunt introduce me.

    Now Im 17 , I started seeing my friends dad who is 48 years old , this month is going to be the 3 1/2 month. When I started going to my friends house he kept following me saying you r so pretty , i laugh and giggle a lot then he started making dirty jokes when his daughter wasn't around i didn't mind. My friend went downstairs he grabbed my ****s saying they are so big and nice I enjoyed that a lot. So one day i skipped school I went to his home when his wife wasn't there ... he took me to his basement there he showed me his huge ***** .. we ended up having really rough sex without condom with lotz of lube. First month I was serious abt him thats y i had regular sex with him he told me he wants to marry me and everything he also promised me he's going o leave his wife because she's never home... now 3 1/2 months passed of this he hasn't really done anything abt it my friend still doesn't knw... last week he was ignoring my calls i saw him with this young girl and im not sure if he's ****ing her? . My aunt told me to go talk to him about all this she dropped me to his home I went I asked him y ur ignoring my calls i saw u with a girl n' blah blah so basically he ended up having sex with me to prove me he loves me, after sex he called me a **** hoar he told me im only good for ****ing he told me he used me because he likes young girls with big breast he's like I would never marry a hoar like you cuz u ****ed so many men. I cried a lot i mean how stupid was I to even love him. My aunt keeps telling me forget about him but I can't she even called one of her friend to have sex with me she thought that would keep my mind off but it didn't. I don't know if I should tell his daughter about all this. I seriously wanna teach him a lesson so bad!

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    I can't believe this situation. And I can't believe that you have an aunt like this one who encourages you to have sex since you were 13 years old....and then with married men much older than you.

    Don't you have a mother or a father? What are you doing hanging around with this woman whom you call an aunt and who is such a terrible influence on you?

    All I can say, is get out of the influence of this woman and out of this dependence you have on sex with multiple partners for your self esteem.

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    Very true.
    Although being a teen puts you through many physical changes, including a hyper active libido, i would strongly advise you not to indulge in such sexual habits.
    You are not only hurting your self esteem, but are also putting yourself at a great physical risks.
    First of all, i think you should break ties with this aunt, who obviously is not a good influence.

    Secondly, you had sex with a man, even though you knew he was married... just imagine how much it would hurt his wife and/or daughter if any of them find out.

    If you are going to have sexual relationships with a person, always be sure that his intentions are clean, and let the physical intimacy come out of love, not just lust.
    Always ask yourself the following questions before indulging in any sort of physical intimacy,
    "Am i going to regret it after its over ??"
    "Will my actions hurt mine, his/hers or anybody else's feelings ??"
    "Am i doing it out of love, or plain desire to have sex ??"
    "Do i feel right about this ??"
    A little introspection will help you avoid any such situations in future


    I am really saddened to hear how this man mistreated you, but you need to learn to take care of yourself now.

    Please, as hard as it may seem, try not to think about what happened, and just use it as a lesson in life...

    Last, but surely not the least, please refrain from having sexual intercourse without the use of protection as you are not only risking pregnancy, but also a large number of sexually transmitted diseases.

    My two cents...
    Last edited by DelhiKing; 14-11-2008 at 07:43 PM. Reason: Just fixed some grammar

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    Quote Originally Posted by DelhiKing View Post
    Very true.
    Being a teen puts you through many physical changes, including a hyper active libido, i would strongly advise you not to indulge in such sexual habits.
    You are not only hurting your self esteem, but are also putting yourself at a great physical risks.
    First of all, i think you should break ties with this aunt, who obviously is not a good influence.

    Secondly, you had sex with a man, even though you knew he was married... just imagine how much it would hurt his wife and/or daughter if any of them find out.

    If you are going to have sexual relationships with a person, always be sure that his intentions are clean, and let the physical intimacy come out of love, not just lust.
    Always ask yourself the following questions before indulging in any sort of physical intimacy,
    "Am i going to regret it after its over ??"
    "Will my actions hurt mine, his/hers or anybody else's feelings ??"
    "Am i doing it out of love, or plain desire to have sex ??"
    "Do i feel right about this ??"
    A little introspection will help you avoid any such situations in future


    I am really saddened to hear how this man mistreated you, but need to learn to take care of yourself now.

    Please, as hard as it may seem, try not to think about what happened, and just use it as a lesson in life...

    Last, but surely not the least, please refrain from having sexual intercourse without the use of protection as you are not only risking pregnancy, but also a large number of sexually transmitted diseases.

    My two cents...

    Your two cents are worth much, much more than two cents, my dear!! Thanks for the sensible advise!!

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    Just want to ask you one thing don't you have any brain to use or you don't have self- consciousness in you. Crazy !!! Use your brain girl. Open your eyes.
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    gors, please dont take it personally but i dont think that we should be replying angrily to people here.
    After all, we are all human and it is totally understandale if someone is mislead or if someone gives in to temptation.
    The whole point of this community is to try and help people who find themselves in difficult situatuions.
    Please try to maintain a friendly and understanding dtand here, and offer calm suggestions to the one in need of help.
    Once again, please dont take it personally

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    it's the aunt

    i'm not blamin her but for me it's the fault of the aunt for being too open minded and havent taught her niece to set limits in things

    and dear gurl when we're in love - it's true we believe everything

    u're undergoing your teenage time when u start discovering sex - love and many thing

    i think it's good that you can share everything wid ur aunt but wht i can't understand is why she encourage you to have sex with those men - it's nearly like an exploitation and the worse is that you did without condom

    dear have you heard about aids and being pregnant ???

    have u thought of those problems ????

    so please take time to think - ask yourqself questions - use ur reason and try to set yourself the limits beteween wht is to be done or not

    i hope u didnt catch any disease nor u gonna be pregnant

    it's not to make u more worried but take it like a kind of warning

    please think before u do things because soon or later u might regret

    as for the man do not worry it happened to all of us when we were teenagers to believe in men sayin this and that - forget him because he abused you



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    Quote Originally Posted by DelhiKing View Post
    Very true.
    Although eing a teen puts you through many physical changes, including a hyper active libido, i would strongly advise you not to indulge in such sexual habits.
    You are not only hurting your self esteem, but are also putting yourself at a great physical risks.
    First of all, i think you should break ties with this aunt, who obviously is not a good influence.

    Secondly, you had sex with a man, even though you knew he was married... just imagine how much it would hurt his wife and/or daughter if any of them find out.

    If you are going to have sexual relationships with a person, always be sure that his intentions are clean, and let the physical intimacy come out of love, not just lust.
    Always ask yourself the following questions before indulging in any sort of physical intimacy,
    "Am i going to regret it after its over ??"
    "Will my actions hurt mine, his/hers or anybody else's feelings ??"
    "Am i doing it out of love, or plain desire to have sex ??"
    "Do i feel right about this ??"
    A little introspection will help you avoid any such situations in future


    I am really saddened to hear how this man mistreated you, but you need to learn to take care of yourself now.

    Please, as hard as it may seem, try not to think about what happened, and just use it as a lesson in life...

    Last, but surely not the least, please refrain from having sexual intercourse without the use of protection as you are not only risking pregnancy, but also a large number of sexually transmitted diseases.

    My two cents...
    Excellent advice, couldn't have been put better! I agree with Preeto Maam, your maturity in this issue and the advice is worth more than 2 cents! I like it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by DREAMY69 View Post
    I started having sex at very young age i was 13 and i had sex with my aunts friend who was 35 without condom. Even though she's my far away aunt She and I are every close so she knows about everything. These 4 years passed I encountered having sex with lots of older men many of them my aunt introduce me.

    Now Im 17 , I started seeing my friends dad who is 48 years old , this month is going to be the 3 1/2 month. When I started going to my friends house he kept following me saying you r so pretty , i laugh and giggle a lot then he started making dirty jokes when his daughter wasn't around i didn't mind. My friend went downstairs he grabbed my ****s saying they are so big and nice I enjoyed that a lot. So one day i skipped school I went to his home when his wife wasn't there ... he took me to his basement there he showed me his huge ***** .. we ended up having really rough sex without condom with lotz of lube. First month I was serious abt him thats y i had regular sex with him he told me he wants to marry me and everything he also promised me he's going o leave his wife because she's never home... now 3 1/2 months passed of this he hasn't really done anything abt it my friend still doesn't knw... last week he was ignoring my calls i saw him with this young girl and im not sure if he's ****ing her? . My aunt told me to go talk to him about all this she dropped me to his home I went I asked him y ur ignoring my calls i saw u with a girl n' blah blah so basically he ended up having sex with me to prove me he loves me, after sex he called me a **** hoar he told me im only good for ****ing he told me he used me because he likes young girls with big breast he's like I would never marry a hoar like you cuz u ****ed so many men. I cried a lot i mean how stupid was I to even love him. My aunt keeps telling me forget about him but I can't she even called one of her friend to have sex with me she thought that would keep my mind off but it didn't. I don't know if I should tell his daughter about all this. I seriously wanna teach him a lesson so bad!
    -sad .

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    so sad start a new life

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    Thumbs up felt sorry for your situation.

    Its very bad of your Aunt, She is the main who misleaded you. But all is the past. you have a chance to start in a new way and new style. Think about what you want and how you can. Make your priority about all things even in relations. Dont be Emotional fool. So wake up.. its the time for "jagoo re.." and please dont waste much time on the past. it will 100% hurt you and you only. No one comes for anybody. we have to deal with all what we did. All the best for your near future.

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    personally, looks like a porn story for me.

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    Default you don't have to feel ashamed

    i know ms dreamy 69 you must be feeling ashamed of your life but you don't have to feel it. your so called useless aunt should be punished.
    great people has said that you should focus on your future and not your past. you are still young. you have your whole life to think about it and when you do you will laugh on the things that you did. its a phase and it will go.
    come out of that woman's circle. spend time with your friends your age and my advice study. do some creative stuff and if you can get some information from someone for some health advice. go to doctor to check your health. its wise. and visit some therapist who might help you if you have any problem.
    get some hobbies which will keep you busy. love you life. be proud.

    and be positive

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    wowwwwwwwww

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    What were u and ur aunt thinking.

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