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    Default Make your first night memorable ;)

    little anxiety coupled with moments of anticipation and finally some wild thoughts, the perfect first night experience is often sprinkled with



    moments of coy reservation!

    Most couples nurse nervous speculations and deep seated performance anxiety about their first night of closeness. Hearsay from newly wed friends or common beliefs picked up from random sources add to the sexual tension. Knowing the exact way to get it right is an arduous task and if gone wrong, you may end up facing a catastrophic situation in your bedroom with your first nuptial boo-boos.

    We spoke to some couples to know the common blunders they made (inadvertently) on their first night. Of course, it wasn't just about 'sex' on the first night, as there were numerous other problems which could ruin the first night craze...

    Boo-boo: A moment in haste and its all waste
    Without much knowledge about sex, couples encountered awkward situations like premature ejaculation for men or women getting overtly apprehensive about ******l pain and hymen bleeding. Fear is the biggest factor affecting performance on the first night.

    Top Tip: Make the act more pleasurable
    No person is a master sex performer, so indulge in a prolonged foreplay session to make your first night a tender bonding experience. Even if things go wrong, stay calm and try again after some time. Sometimes the wedding stress and the discomfort of an all new environment takes a mental toll. The body and mind may not be fully open for the experience of sexual discovery. Being patient is key.

    Boo-boo: Experiments can wait
    Agreed that it's your first time with your partner, but don't get overtly excited. Couples are all geared up to try new acts in bed, but first try and figure out your partner's comfort quotient.

    Top Tip: Every night is a first night
    Don't think that the first night is your 'one and only' chance to make love passionately, with time your bond will grow even more special with your better half. The first night is just the beginning of pleasures. Don't fret and waste it in performance anxiety!

    Boo-boo: Look sexy in tradition
    It's believed that a bride must remain in her wedding outfit and let the husband come and lift up the veil (‘ghoongat’). But modern day brides aren't too interested in donning the ostentatious outfit for too long and the minute they enter the bedroom; they prefer to undress into a sexy lingerie/night gown. Now, no matter how sensuous your night gown maybe, it doesn't have the same charm as a wedding ensemble. This fashion faux pas forms a lesser known, but common goof-up for brides.

    Top Tip: Gifts Galore
    As the husband lifts up the veil of the bride's wedding outfit, she's entitled to a surprise gift (for 'mooh dikhayee').Rings, pendants, necklaces are passé; think of something out-of-the-blue, maybe a romantic honeymoon package, which she would be least expecting or a glamorous outfit, a transparent, hot dress, which you'd like her to get clad in just for your eyes.

    Boo-Boo: Motor mouth myth
    Some might not agree here, but the following is a common occurrence. Your partner is not interested in too much


    talking, especially on the first night. If you're the new bride, behave like one - blush a little to impart that 'just married' feel. Men should ideally stop narrating a long drawn thesis about their preferences. Being a chatterbox is no less than a slip-up!

    Top Tip: Words say a lot more
    Don't give each other marathon lessons on your likes and dislikes. Instead writing a romantic letter and keeping it tucked away under the pillow can be a sweet initiating gesture. Open up and talk about your secrets and hidden desires!

    Boo-boo: Stop acting as strangers, you're married
    We aren't saying shed all inhibitions and get going for a wild act in bed, but at least initiate the process of getting to know each other. Couples often refrain from talking to each other normally on the first night, presuming it's just meant for 'sex!'

    Top Tip: Know each other
    Start an interesting conversation to break the ice. Share moments you enjoyed on your wedding day and build the comfort level.

    Boo-boo: Let the ambiance do the talking
    The D-day tiredness is evidently there, but some couples, especially brides, tend to go overboard with the stress factor. This surely is a big turn-off for the other half, as he sees you either sleeping already or all prepared to slip between the sheets without any foreplay act. Just because you're tired!

    Top Tip: Ambience unlimited
    It's your first night, so your bed may as well resemble a full bloom garden in spring. Decorate it in a way that it sets the mood right for a romantic nighttime ahead. Create a heady ambience with aromatic oils, fragrant flowers, scented bed sheets and sensual music. It will heal your tired souls. Also try a relaxing foot massage to pamper each other. It will set the stage for the real act.

    Boo-boo: Forget friends, it's your time to enjoy each other
    As per tradition, the bride has to give her young in-laws a bribe to move out of the way before she enters the bedroom. Unfortunately, some in their new 'bahu' avatar tend to allow friends and relatives to come in and sit for hours to gossip, without even realising that the poor hubby is waiting to get spend some alone (private) moments. Grow up girls!

    Top Tip: Twosome is the word
    Friends and relatives are not going anywhere, stop indulging with them too much, especially on your first night. Concentrate on the man instead and make him feel special and not your in-laws.

    The first night is special. Chase your future dreams rather than pining away for distant sexual goals.
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    Thanks for sharing ... reps added

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    nice Post!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sb_lover View Post
    Thanks for sharing ... reps added
    Thanx for repz and replies
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    Without much knowledge about sex, couples encountered awkward situations like premature ejaculation for men or women getting overtly apprehensive about ******l pain and hymen bleeding. Fear is the biggest factor affecting performance on the first night.

    i am scared too of my first night


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    Quote Originally Posted by ♥»вlυεвεггγ«♥ View Post
    Without much knowledge about sex, couples encountered awkward situations like premature ejaculation for men or women getting overtly apprehensive about ******l pain and hymen bleeding. Fear is the biggest factor affecting performance on the first night.

    i am scared too of my first night
    yeah well said fati
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    Let's make out, let's do something amazing,
    Let's do something that's all the way
    'Cause I never touched somebody like the way I touch your body,
    Now I never want to let your body go ...
    Let's make a night to remember




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    Quote Originally Posted by ignoramusenator View Post
    Let's make out, let's do something amazing,
    Let's do something that's all the way
    'Cause I never touched somebody like the way I touch your body,
    Now I never want to let your body go ...
    Let's make a night to remember

    Goodluck to u Iggy
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    Anymore takers !!!!!!!!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by rocky1976 View Post
    Anymore takers !!!!!!!!!!

    i wept on my fist night

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    good info rocky reppz added
    Ever has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation

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    nice one guru....

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    Quote Originally Posted by ♥»вlυεвεггγ«♥ View Post
    Without much knowledge about sex, couples encountered awkward situations like premature ejaculation for men or women getting overtly apprehensive about ******l pain and hymen bleeding. Fear is the biggest factor affecting performance on the first night.

    i am scared too of my first night

    everybdy is...........
    LOOK.....What I can DO..!

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    thnx sex guru..........!

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