Your Foreplay Guide

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Your Foreplay Guide

Traditionally, "foreplay" was considered to be something that a man had to do to get his partner ready for sexual intercourse. Today, foreplay has become an integral part of the whole lovemaking experience.

Especially with age, both partners will need a little extra spice to get fully aroused and achieve maximum pleasure. Hence you need to learn the importance of foreplay. The man will need to prolong foreplay to get an *****ion and the woman will need the same to become properly lubricated. Most sex experts agree that there is no such thing as spending too much time on foreplay. The trick is to start intercourse when both partners are peaking with excitement and are having a hard time controlling their desires.

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what is foreplay?

You've gotta learn the importance of foreplay, which can encompass a wide range of activities, including hugging, fondling, undressing, kissing, petting, and performing oral sex. Why is foreplay so important? First of all, men who cuddle and kiss their partners and know how to enjoy sensitive foreplay will often find that their partners will not only enjoy sexual intercourse more, but will also see their partners reach orgasm more easily. Most women need prolonged stimulation in order to reach a state of complete arousal, and foreplay will provide them with the required stimulation

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Don't rush in

The main thing men forget is that it takes women longer to get in the mood Men can move more or less directly from watching football to having sex but women are much more aware of setting, surroundings and mood. They need to be romanced a little and have more transition time.

Slow everything down. Begin your seduction on the sofa, dedicate time to kissing, undress slowly - the more time you spend working her up into a lather the better, for both of you.

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Use kind words

Since women respond more to verbal rather than visual stimuli, talking is one of the best ways to arouse a woman. It's also a way of letting your partner know that she can take all the time she needs.

During foreplay, women are often thinking about how they look, whether they can please you, whether they're desirable, And here are the three best words you can say to a woman during foreplay: "Take your time." It may sound stupid, but you're giving her permission to relax and enjoy herself. It's effective, and she'll appreciate you for saying it.

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Ignore the obvious goal

A main complaint women make about men's approach to foreplay is we're too genital-orientated. What men should remember is that women require more non-genital , whole-body-touching sex Gentle touching is evidence to her that he cares about her as a person. She needs that before she can become fully aroused

Make a pact with yourself that for a full ten minutes you won't even go near her vagina. Concentrate instead on the other nerve rich areas of her body such as the breasts, mouth, neck, armpits, buttocks and earlobes.

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Learn to tease

Anticipation is a powerful aphrodisiac. Here's one trick that will work brilliantly for both of you: lie on your side facing your partner, with the tip of your genital just touching her entrance

This allows you to kiss, fondle her breasts and stroke her buttocks while gently teasing her with your genital. Resist the urge to penetrate, though, until she wants.

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Know her body

After all these years studying the female body you might think you know it inside out. But here's a three-minute masterclass.

HER BREASTS

While we might enjoy them, only one in ten women actively play with them during masturbation, so don't automatically expect her to respond to your attentive breast worship. She certainly won't respond kindly to it just before her period - this is when they are at their most tender.

HER ******S

If they're not ***** yet, don't clamp or twist them. Instead, use the flat of your palm to rub her entire breast in a circular motion. Start lightly and increase the pressure as she becomes excited. Once they are firm, take them between two wet fingers and slide back and forth. Don't squeeze.

HER CLITORIS

This bud of concentrated nerve endings is a lot more sensitive to touch than the penis, so don't bash or tweak it too hard with your fingers. And don't plunge a finger deep into the vagina - most women find this a real turn-off, not to mention uncomfortable.

HER INNER LIPS

These are much more sensitive than the outer ones, especially if stroked along their inner surface. In one sex survey 84 per cent of women masturbated by stroking them, along with the clitoris.

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Kiss

Men, particularly those in long-standing relationships, tend to forget how pleasurable kissing is. Instead, it becomes nothing more than a signal that says "I want sex now. Next thing you know, you're limiting kissing because you don¹t want your partner to assume it's a prelude to sex.

Escape this downward spiral by kissing her more throughout the day. Then, when it does come to sex, make sure kissing is at the forefront of your foreplay. Use your tongue to explore her entire body and be gentle. Remember - many women would like less tongue. Try instead to use the tip of it to play with the tip of hers.

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Get an A in oral

For a polished performance try these simple tricks:

USE A PILLOW

A pillow under your partner's rear end provides better access to her genitals

BE FIRM

Put your hand on her perineum, and press or massage it. It's one of the most erogenous zones for women.

'SING' TO HER

The clitoris responds best to constant, gentle vibration. A good way to achieve this is to hum quietly as you **** her. A well hummed aria can push some women into orgasmic orbit


Explore

Most men simply work their way down a woman's body - mouth, breasts, belly-button, and so on. But look at it from her point of view: if she knows exactly where you're taking her the journey's no fun. Whisk her off on a mystery tour instead:

TRY OVERLOOKED BITS

Her eyelids, inner thighs, the backs of her knees, behind her earlobes, and the tops of her breasts (not her ******s).

USE SMALL ****ING KISSES

Add pressure with the tip of your tongue.

AFTER KISSING, BLOW ON THE AREA

It's probably the only time she'll enjoy catching a chill.

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yaar aaj kal itna time kiske paas hai.
aur yahi karte karte ejaculate gaye phir main play kaun karega.

[abhay28]

Quite useful!!!! This is one important step before sex!!!!

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Wonderful Tips Buddy......t4s

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Foreplay Guide for Women

Give directions

Women are as much at fault for not communicating their own needs. "Many women still have a great deal of difficulty in communicating what they want and need sexually - if she doesn't know what she wants, his chances of satisfying her are greatly reduced." You don't have to tell him where to put his fingers, where to blow and what to ****, but guiding with your hands works wonders.


Be firm

One of the most common complaints from men when it comes to sex is that women don't grab the penis firmly enough when handling it. If you're unsure what's firm and what's painful, get your partner to place his hands around yours and allow him to adjust the pressure. The same goes for playing with a man's testicles. They may not be as delicate as you think.


Be a tease

The reason men don't like foreplay is that they're mental sprinters; totally focused on the finishing line. What you need to do is slow him down by putting a few hurdles in his way. Work your way down his body, avoiding his genitals at all costs. The objective? To make and keep him hard for as long as possible He'll appreciate the wait.

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Stimulate his G spot

The good news is he does have a G-spot. The bad news? You'll need to insert a lubricated finger into his bottom to find it. If you do this and press towards the front of his body you should be able to feel a small knot. This is the prostate gland and, for many men, having it massaged or stroked can intensify orgasm. There is another way to get to it, though. The area just below the testicles that leads to the anus is extremely sensitive to touch and can deepen the degree of sensation, particularly if pressed lightly. By doing this you're essentially massaging his prostate externally.


Give him something to see

Letting your partner watch you masturbate is one of the most intimate sexual acts you can share with someone. But letting him see how you stimulate yourself works on two levels. Not only does it give him the best possible lesson in how to arouse you, it will pander to his need for visual stimulation. To charge this scene even further, tell him that he can watch but not touch, or create a fantasy scene where he's spying on you without your knowledge.


Talk dirty

Women have traditionally felt more uncomfortable about talking dirty, times are changing.This is all the permission you need to describe in detail what you're doing, what you're about to do and what you'd love him to do to you. Men love running commentaries.

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Feed his eyes

The older your partner, is the more likely foreplay is going to be an important part of sex for him too. But here's something you should know: "Older men are more quickly aroused by the visual than they are even by manual stimulation of the genitals," Make the prelude to sex a real performance and allow him to look at your body, try dressing up, anything that provides a little extra eye candy.


Open the toy box

Vibrators are generally associated with women but men can enjoy them too. If you have a vibrator, use it against his genital and against his ******s, before getting him to experiment with it on you.


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