Want to get rid of her

sanjeev_k78 · 01-11-2009, 02:21 PM

I am a 34 yr old married man with one child.We have been married for 7 yrs now. My wife and kid means a lot to me and I have no complaints against my wife.

Recently I met clandestinely my old friend of 20 yrs who is also married.We actually planned to meet and have sex.We had sex ...but the act was not so gratifying...the thrill was neither what I expected it to be.Only penetrative sex was the catch...she neither appeared to have a gr8 body nor gr8 looks.It was more of a routine thing at the end.

Now she wants to meet me again..again have sex...whereas I do not want to meet her again and earnestly wish she forgets me.Its my excessive horny attitude which guided me to the mere penetration act.

My problem is I want her to check out without hurting her.Tried many things but she is not picking any notice.I just want to get her out on her own and agree that for me it was all lust never love and flirting act of sexual gratification.

Please advise.

**Preeto Maam** · 05-11-2009, 12:31 PM

You know I'm a little disturbed at this whole thing. First you have extra marital sex just for the gratification of it. Then you decide that its not worth it because the lady does not have a 'great body' and now, you want to dump her.

I'm glad that you are at least thinking of doing so without causing her hurt!

Now the thing is that you can tell her that you are feeling guilty about your wife. I think that may be the best excuse under the circumstances. Under no condition must you meet her again, Say what you have to say and then please do not contact her again!

sweetsanjay25 · 05-11-2009, 02:11 PM

Hi Sanjeev,

Good Gracious she didnt have that Magic Body you were dreaming of. What if she was a stunner with amazing features ? You would have just loved to continue banging her at the drop of a hat without even having second thoughts about your legally wedded wife.

People like you are a curse. I wish the woman never leaves you in peace. She might even have proof to blackmail you boss. Good Luck. God save you if he has got some pity on you.

Sanjay

Quote:

Originally Posted by sanjeev_k78

I am a 34 yr old married man with one child.We have been married for 7 yrs now. My wife and kid means a lot to me and I have no complaints against my wife.

Recently I met clandestinely my old friend of 20 yrs who is also married.We actually planned to meet and have sex.We had sex ...but the act was not so gratifying...the thrill was neither what I expected it to be.Only penetrative sex was the catch...she neither appeared to have a gr8 body nor gr8 looks.It was more of a routine thing at the end.

Now she wants to meet me again..again have sex...whereas I do not want to meet her again and earnestly wish she forgets me.Its my excessive horny attitude which guided me to the mere penetration act.

My problem is I want her to check out without hurting her.Tried many things but she is not picking any notice.I just want to get her out on her own and agree that for me it was all lust never love and flirting act of sexual gratification.

Please advise.

it matters to me · 05-11-2009, 04:33 PM

Hi

I think you have the age old problem of thinking with your penis rather than your brains.. And the ex-girlfriend of course is trying to recreate the same romance you both shared before you both married to others.

In all this you have not shown any shame or regret for your actions, then why this hesitation in telling her that you just don't find her attractive or hot and just used her for sex which again was not so mind blowing for you . I feel that the most respectable thing you can do in the circumstances.. is to be honest to her.

sanjeev_k78 · 06-11-2009, 06:42 PM

Thanks Ma'm for your advises.

I tried my wife thing too..but she feels that I am her friend and she never knew my wife unless it was for me.So cahoots !! to my wife as long as I am willing.

In the face of it I am trying all my best to not hurt her at all and still see her exit....so now I have to take recourse to lies and pretexts to avoid her as much as I can.

Neways...thanks again for your valuable advises. I need to sort this out.

P.S - Couple of "holier than thou" members have posted their remarks..it makes me wonder whether in my place they would have left the girl saying 'virtue prevails'.Nuts...she was a stunner during our school and college days and after the act I had a torrid time for some of her unexplained and uncalled behaviour which is why I do not want to do an encore again.Please refrain from making unsolicited comments.

sanjeev_k78 · 06-11-2009, 06:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sweetsanjay25

Hi Sanjeev,

Good Gracious she didnt have that Magic Body you were dreaming of. What if she was a stunner with amazing features ? You would have just loved to continue banging her at the drop of a hat without even having second thoughts about your legally wedded wife.

People like you are a curse. I wish the woman never leaves you in peace. She might even have proof to blackmail you boss. Good Luck. God save you if he has got some pity on you.

Sanjay

Tch Tch !!! So sorry that you missed out the bus and now barking at others !!

sb_fan2 · 06-11-2009, 07:17 PM

I have sympathy with you. Other en saying pity/shame etc etc are just saying as they are jealous. They get an oppurtunity they will do the same. Dont worry about them.

You had an extra marital - now you want to get away is kind of difficult..

She knows you are married, she knows that you know she is married. She still wants to have the relation / sex going. This means you are in good talking terms - think positive.

THINK POSITIVE - dont get rid of her - use her - tell her that you want to try 3some with her and another pretty girl at the same time. Tell her to find another girl for you and herself..

Enjoy life.. you get it once.

kimora · 06-11-2009, 08:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sweetsanjay25

Hi Sanjeev,

Good Gracious she didnt have that Magic Body you were dreaming of. What if she was a stunner with amazing features ? You would have just loved to continue banging her at the drop of a hat without even having second thoughts about your legally wedded wife.

People like you are a curse. I wish the woman never leaves you in peace. She might even have proof to blackmail you boss. Good Luck. God save you if he has got some pity on you.

Sanjay

i soooooooo much agree with you sanjay.. great reply. men like him makes me hate 'men specie' more than everytime. i just can elieve sb fan's reply as well.. this is so sad. is this only sex in the world to think n practice about. i feel pity ur wife whose trust u have broken. i wish i could let her know by any means. i jst wish tht woman get stick to u so badly tht can never ever get rid of her. u neither die nor live [:d] shame on you and get a life and every tht man whos following and misguiding you. ciao

Angel Lucifer · 06-11-2009, 09:42 PM

Good again.....did u dump ur brain in a dustbin when u did that the first time....if not,then why r u worrying about the extramarital affair u had committed?

If u don have the guts to force her away...do that "penetration "thing again

champaklal · 06-11-2009, 09:43 PM

Champak: ki hoya Chandu tainu? langda raha hai?
Chandu: Dost, main na, apni 20 saal purani gf ke saath khel raha tha...
Champak: kya khel raha tha? kit kit ya chor police?
Chandu: Doctor Doctor! aur usne mujhe bataya nahin ki wo sachchi mein nurse ki training le rahi hai!

meri pant utari aur mujhe na- ah- ek inju mere derriere mein ghonp diya

ab wo dobara milna chahti hai mujhse, main kya karun? mujhe bacha le dost!
Champak: arre chinta na kar, wo teri wellwisher hai, dekh ab tujhe bimari nahin hogi... inju kahe ka tha?
Chandu: Hepatitis B ka

Champak: constructively soch dost! 3 sessions ke baad Hep B bhi nahin hoga, aur tu "bum se balwan" bhi ho jayega! Oopar se inju ke paise bache so alag, main to kehta hoon ki tu bhabbi ji aur Chunnu ko bhi aise sessions dilwa de apni gf se...
Chal khush ho ja, aur isi baat pe de de puppy

it matters to me · 07-11-2009, 09:04 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sanjeev_k78

Thanks Ma'm for your advises.

I tried my wife thing too..but she feels that I am her friend and she never knew my wife unless it was for me.So cahoots !! to my wife as long as I am willing.

In the face of it I am trying all my best to not hurt her at all and still see her exit....so now I have to take recourse to lies and pretexts to avoid her as much as I can.

Neways...thanks again for your valuable advises. I need to sort this out.

P.S - Couple of "holier than thou" members have posted their remarks..it makes me wonder whether in my place they would have left the girl saying 'virtue prevails'.Nuts...she was a stunner during our school and college days and after the act I had a torrid time for some of her unexplained and uncalled behaviour which is why I do not want to do an encore again.Please refrain from making unsolicited comments.

Why post on a open forum if you are not looking for comments. May be U should have gone to a paid and qualified shrink for a private consultation.

champaklal · 07-11-2009, 02:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by it matters to me

Why post on a open forum if you are not looking for comments. May be U should have gone to a paid and qualified shrink for a private consultation.

may be he wants to tell us what a stud he is, and how lesser mortals of this forum missed the bus which he rode [and he's got gall to accost us too at that!]

atiqsyedpk · 09-11-2009, 12:26 AM

avoid her
hert her emotions
this is the only way u can do this

sanjeev_k78 · 09-11-2009, 11:27 PM

hey you ..did I seek your consultation? Why don't u mind ur own business? Some assholes doesn't have any better thing to do rather than dumping unsolicited advises.....

sanjeev_k78 · 09-11-2009, 11:29 PM

Champku...I guess u know u need what for that and sadly u never had 1 of them either LOL

01-11-2009, 02:21 PM	#1
sanjeev_k78 New Born Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 7 Rep Power: 0	Want to get rid of her I am a 34 yr old married man with one child.We have been married for 7 yrs now. My wife and kid means a lot to me and I have no complaints against my wife. Recently I met clandestinely my old friend of 20 yrs who is also married.We actually planned to meet and have sex.We had sex ...but the act was not so gratifying...the thrill was neither what I expected it to be.Only penetrative sex was the catch...she neither appeared to have a gr8 body nor gr8 looks.It was more of a routine thing at the end. Now she wants to meet me again..again have sex...whereas I do not want to meet her again and earnestly wish she forgets me.Its my excessive horny attitude which guided me to the mere penetration act. My problem is I want her to check out without hurting her.Tried many things but she is not picking any notice.I just want to get her out on her own and agree that for me it was all lust never love and flirting act of sexual gratification. Please advise.

06-11-2009, 06:42 PM	#5
sanjeev_k78 New Born Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 7 Rep Power: 0	Re :Want to Get Rid Of Her ... Thanks Ma'm for your advises. I tried my wife thing too..but she feels that I am her friend and she never knew my wife unless it was for me.So cahoots !! to my wife as long as I am willing. In the face of it I am trying all my best to not hurt her at all and still see her exit....so now I have to take recourse to lies and pretexts to avoid her as much as I can. Neways...thanks again for your valuable advises. I need to sort this out. P.S - Couple of "holier than thou" members have posted their remarks..it makes me wonder whether in my place they would have left the girl saying 'virtue prevails'.Nuts...she was a stunner during our school and college days and after the act I had a torrid time for some of her unexplained and uncalled behaviour which is why I do not want to do an encore again.Please refrain from making unsolicited comments.

06-11-2009, 09:43 PM	#10
champaklal Young Gun Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: In a dark cave Posts: 256 Rep Power: 1	Champak: ki hoya Chandu tainu? langda raha hai? Chandu: Dost, main na, apni 20 saal purani gf ke saath khel raha tha... Champak: kya khel raha tha? kit kit ya chor police? Chandu: Doctor Doctor! aur usne mujhe bataya nahin ki wo sachchi mein nurse ki training le rahi hai! meri pant utari aur mujhe na- ah- ek inju mere derriere mein ghonp diya ab wo dobara milna chahti hai mujhse, main kya karun? mujhe bacha le dost! Champak: arre chinta na kar, wo teri wellwisher hai, dekh ab tujhe bimari nahin hogi... inju kahe ka tha? Chandu: Hepatitis B ka Champak: constructively soch dost! 3 sessions ke baad Hep B bhi nahin hoga, aur tu "bum se balwan" bhi ho jayega! Oopar se inju ke paise bache so alag, main to kehta hoon ki tu bhabbi ji aur Chunnu ko bhi aise sessions dilwa de apni gf se... Chal khush ho ja, aur isi baat pe de de puppy Last edited by champaklal; 06-11-2009 at 09:45 PM.

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05-11-2009, 12:31 PM	#2
Preeto Maam Moderator Lieutenant General Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 44,182 Rep Power: 34	You know I'm a little disturbed at this whole thing. First you have extra marital sex just for the gratification of it. Then you decide that its not worth it because the lady does not have a 'great body' and now, you want to dump her. I'm glad that you are at least thinking of doing so without causing her hurt! Now the thing is that you can tell her that you are feeling guilty about your wife. I think that may be the best excuse under the circumstances. Under no condition must you meet her again, Say what you have to say and then please do not contact her again!

05-11-2009, 04:33 PM	#4
it matters to me SB Champion Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 1,116 Rep Power: 2	Hi I think you have the age old problem of thinking with your penis rather than your brains.. And the ex-girlfriend of course is trying to recreate the same romance you both shared before you both married to others. In all this you have not shown any shame or regret for your actions, then why this hesitation in telling her that you just don't find her attractive or hot and just used her for sex which again was not so mind blowing for you . I feel that the most respectable thing you can do in the circumstances.. is to be honest to her.

06-11-2009, 07:17 PM	#7
sb_fan2 Young Gun Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 283 Rep Power: 1	I have sympathy with you. Other en saying pity/shame etc etc are just saying as they are jealous. They get an oppurtunity they will do the same. Dont worry about them. You had an extra marital - now you want to get away is kind of difficult.. She knows you are married, she knows that you know she is married. She still wants to have the relation / sex going. This means you are in good talking terms - think positive. THINK POSITIVE - dont get rid of her - use her - tell her that you want to try 3some with her and another pretty girl at the same time. Tell her to find another girl for you and herself.. Enjoy life.. you get it once.

06-11-2009, 09:42 PM	#9
Angel Lucifer New Born Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: In Everyone's heart Posts: 31 Rep Power: 0	Good again.....did u dump ur brain in a dustbin when u did that the first time....if not,then why r u worrying about the extramarital affair u had committed? If u don have the guts to force her away...do that "penetration "thing again

09-11-2009, 12:26 AM	#13
atiqsyedpk SB Guru Lieutenant Join Date: May 2007 Location: in.center.of.TALIBAN Posts: 5,080 Rep Power: 6	avoid her hert her emotions this is the only way u can do this

09-11-2009, 11:27 PM	#14
sanjeev_k78 New Born Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 7 Rep Power: 0	hey you ..did I seek your consultation? Why don't u mind ur own business? Some assholes doesn't have any better thing to do rather than dumping unsolicited advises.....

09-11-2009, 11:29 PM	#15
sanjeev_k78 New Born Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 7 Rep Power: 0	Champku...I guess u know u need what for that and sadly u never had 1 of them either LOL