He divorced for me but now silent

30-10-2009, 04:16 PM

Hi maam, i am very confused by the behaviour of the man i love.
please tell me whats happening.

I was in love with him from 16 months now, he is married. But promised to get divorced to marry me. We were close in all ways (i mean like husband-wife.. sex also)..
Finally 3 months ago he divorced his wife but soon after that he began to keep distance with me. He is not returning my calls and not itnersted in me at all.
I am afraid he got into somet other woman?? what can i do maam? pls help as soon as possible.. THanks!!!

bondx99 · 31-10-2009, 02:31 AM

Jaisi karni waisi bharni

jagdishchand · 31-10-2009, 06:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sushma27

Hi maam, i am very confused by the behaviour of the man i love.
please tell me whats happening.

I was in love with him from 16 months now, he is married. But promised to get divorced to marry me. We were close in all ways (i mean like husband-
wife.. sex also)..
Finally 3 months ago he divorced his wife but soon after that he began to keep distance with me. He is not returning my calls and not itnersted in me at all.
I am afraid he got into somet other woman?? what can i do maam? pls help as soon as possible.. THanks!!!

first of all it was a big mistake to fall in love with a guy who is already married.. his silence is not a good sign.
Either he is doubtful about continuing this affrair with u or he already found another gir.. Wait for few days and see what he does.

siddharth3.5 · 31-10-2009, 09:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sushma27

Hi maam, i am very confused by the behaviour of the man i love.
please tell me whats happening.

I was in love with him from 16 months now, he is married. But promised to get divorced to marry me. We were close in all ways (i mean like husband-wife.. sex also)..
Finally 3 months ago he divorced his wife but soon after that he began to keep distance with me. He is not returning my calls and not itnersted in me at all.
I am afraid he got into somet other woman?? what can i do maam? pls help as soon as possible.. THanks!!!

How did u trust this guy?? when he cheats his wife its sure that he will cheat u also.. or he can cheat anybody any time.. u were very careless in this. I dont think its even love.. The future news may not be good so be ready to face it whatever it may be..

manoranjan2009 · 31-10-2009, 01:07 PM

aap bhi kitni bholi nikali ki aapne apna sub kuch (aape mera matlab samaj gayi hogi) ek shadishuda aadmi ko samarpit kar diya wah bhi isliye ki wah apni bibi ko talak dekar aap se shaadi kar lega.
Jab wah apni bibi ka na ho saka to aapka kya hoga.

AB PACHTAYE HOT KYA JAB CHIRIYA CHUG GAI KHET.

**Preeto Maam** · 31-10-2009, 02:01 PM

The thing is that unless he communicates with you, you will only have to depend on guesswork. None of us can guess why he is not communicating with you specially since he has divorced his wife for the love of you.

Why don't you go and meet him?

prakash27 · 31-10-2009, 03:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sushma27

Hi maam, i am very confused by the behaviour of the man i love.
please tell me whats happening.

I was in love with him from 16 months now, he is married. But promised to get divorced to marry me. We were close in all ways (i mean like husband-wife.. sex also)..
Finally 3 months ago he divorced his wife but soon after that he began to keep distance with me. He is not returning my calls and not itnersted in me at all.
I am afraid he got into somet other woman?? what can i do maam? pls help as soon as possible.. THanks!!!

Yup u must have a talk with him!! Ask him whats going on!! If he try to slip off then something is clearly worng. Or if he explains if something wrong, then also its good!! Atleast the confusion will be gone!!
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ganesh111 · 31-10-2009, 06:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sushma27

Hi maam, i am very confused by the behaviour of the man i love.
please tell me whats happening.

I was in love with him from 16 months now, he is married. But promised to get divorced to marry me. We were close in all ways (i mean like husband-wife.. sex also)..
Finally 3 months ago he divorced his wife but soon after that he began to keep distance with me. He is not returning my calls and not itnersted in me at all.
I am afraid he got into somet other woman?? what can i do maam? pls help as soon as possible.. THanks!!!

IT can be possible he is trying to get over the old marriage.. getting divorced is not easy. evenif he did it for u, he will have some trouble getting out of the marraige.
Give him some time and then if still he is unavailable ask whats the problem

narayanhegde · 01-11-2009, 12:25 PM

both of you have taken some steps which can be seen as immatured in ur own eyes..That man was ready to fall in love with a girl forgetting his wife... and you on the other hand were ready to take a guy from his wife..
both of u call its love but in ur own eyes each other have done things.. this thought will always be in ur mind.. for ur problem i think its good for u to contact him in person and do enquiry..If he is not well, postpone talking about it til he becomes ok..

enjoy_lol · 01-11-2009, 05:18 PM

lolxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx ur afraid that there might be some other woman in his life............. but are u "the other woman" in his life...... he left his wife for u........... and he left u for someone........... is it new?........... he is the man whom u loved hu can leave someone for the other........... anyways

u wont know what exactly is the reason unles u talk to him.......... get to meet him some how and ask for the reason

all the best

god b less u

rangnath · 02-11-2009, 02:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sushma27

Hi maam, i am very confused by the behaviour of the man i love.
please tell me whats happening.

I was in love with him from 16 months now, he is married. But promised to get divorced to marry me. We were close in all ways (i mean like husband-wife.. sex also)..
Finally 3 months ago he divorced his wife but soon after that he began to keep distance with me. He is not returning my calls and not itnersted in me at all.
I am afraid he got into somet other woman?? what can i do maam? pls help as soon as possible.. THanks!!!

3 months is too long gap to avoid contact.. just approach him to know whats making him to avoid u. Its possible he is having some emotional breakdown or some other problems, in that case u can help him.. or if he is not interested in u anymore u can know that also..
If its bad news be prepared for it also, dont get worried.. because there is some careless behaviour from u too

anaira · 02-11-2009, 03:02 PM

he has done nothing but used you

FeeDback · 02-11-2009, 03:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sushma27

Hi
I am afraid he got into somet other woman?? what can i do maam? pls help as soon as possible.. THanks!!!

Hello,
Wow! Did you complain when he came to you leaving his wife ? I don't think so, because you were more concerned to have sex with an experienced man. No doubt, there are many like you all over. You have no right to complain, when he could divorce his wife, you are not even his wife. .how can you complain. Not even law can save fools. Hope you are getting the point.
Thanks for thanking me!

saketskr · 02-11-2009, 04:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sushma27

Hi maam, i am very confused by the behaviour of the man i love.
please tell me whats happening.

I was in love with him from 16 months now, he is married. But promised to get divorced to marry me. We were close in all ways (i mean like husband-wife.. sex also)..
Finally 3 months ago he divorced his wife but soon after that he began to keep distance with me. He is not returning my calls and not itnersted in me at all.
I am afraid he got into somet other woman?? what can i do maam? pls help as soon as possible.. THanks!!!

its not good to trust this man.. he diovrced his wife for one girl..
there is no guarantee it wonthappen with u also.. be careful..

bhushan1982 · 03-11-2009, 07:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sushma27

Hi maam, i am very confused by the behaviour of the man i love.
please tell me whats happening.

I was in love with him from 16 months now, he is married. But promised to get divorced to marry me. We were close in all ways (i mean like husband-wife.. sex also)..
Finally 3 months ago he divorced his wife but soon after that he began to keep distance with me. He is not returning my calls and not itnersted in me at all.
I am afraid he got into somet other woman?? what can i do maam? pls help as soon as possible.. THanks!!!

there must be some misunderstanding... or he was only tricking u also.
Talking with him is the only way to know for certain.

30-10-2009, 04:16 PM	#1
sushma27 Guest Posts: n/a	He divorced for me but now silent Hi maam, i am very confused by the behaviour of the man i love. please tell me whats happening. I was in love with him from 16 months now, he is married. But promised to get divorced to marry me. We were close in all ways (i mean like husband-wife.. sex also).. Finally 3 months ago he divorced his wife but soon after that he began to keep distance with me. He is not returning my calls and not itnersted in me at all. I am afraid he got into somet other woman?? what can i do maam? pls help as soon as possible.. THanks!!!

31-10-2009, 02:31 AM	#2
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01-11-2009, 05:18 PM	#10
enjoy_lol SUBLIME Lieutenant Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 6,643 Rep Power: 7	lolxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx ur afraid that there might be some other woman in his life............. but are u "the other woman" in his life...... he left his wife for u........... and he left u for someone........... is it new?........... he is the man whom u loved hu can leave someone for the other........... anyways u wont know what exactly is the reason unles u talk to him.......... get to meet him some how and ask for the reason all the best god b less u __________________ Once the game is over, the king and the pawn go back in the same box THE X - GANG ..........]

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31-10-2009, 01:07 PM	#5
manoranjan2009 New Born Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 56 Rep Power: 0	aap bhi kitni bholi nikali ki aapne apna sub kuch (aape mera matlab samaj gayi hogi) ek shadishuda aadmi ko samarpit kar diya wah bhi isliye ki wah apni bibi ko talak dekar aap se shaadi kar lega. Jab wah apni bibi ka na ho saka to aapka kya hoga. AB PACHTAYE HOT KYA JAB CHIRIYA CHUG GAI KHET.

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Preeto Maam Moderator Lieutenant General Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 44,182 Rep Power: 34	The thing is that unless he communicates with you, you will only have to depend on guesswork. None of us can guess why he is not communicating with you specially since he has divorced his wife for the love of you. Why don't you go and meet him?

01-11-2009, 12:25 PM	#9
narayanhegde Young Gun Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 246 Rep Power: 1	both of you have taken some steps which can be seen as immatured in ur own eyes..That man was ready to fall in love with a girl forgetting his wife... and you on the other hand were ready to take a guy from his wife.. both of u call its love but in ur own eyes each other have done things.. this thought will always be in ur mind.. for ur problem i think its good for u to contact him in person and do enquiry..If he is not well, postpone talking about it til he becomes ok..

02-11-2009, 03:02 PM	#12
anaira New Born Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 19 Rep Power: 0	he has done nothing but used you