Finally a guy loves me, but i dont like him.

04-11-2009, 03:28 PM

Hi i am gitika 22 yrs old and working.
I am not a very attractive girl, but have lots of friends. Till now during my studies i have fallen in love with two guys but both of them didnt like me, may be i wasnt too beautiful in their eyes.
Now a guy in my office loves me, i know he likes coz he is always around me and finding reasons to talk to me and giving out all signs.
But i dont know why i am not feeling the same for him. Is it because he is not handsom? or is it because of something else i dont know. But i am worried also beause if he propose and i dont accpet it will i be alone always?? WHat shall i do maam?

Midnight Valentine · 04-11-2009, 04:02 PM

I feel that you should not only think about his looks...does he loves you truly?
If he loves you and if you don't have much problem with his looks..you can give him and yourself a chance.

One thing is for sure...if someone loves you ,it's not a very brilliant idea to let that person go.No matter how your boyfriend looks ,if he loves you ..you'll be happy!

prakash27 · 04-11-2009, 04:47 PM

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Originally Posted by gitika2287@zapakmail.com

Hi i am gitika 22 yrs old and working.
I am not a very attractive girl, but have lots of friends. Till now during my studies i have fallen in love with two guys but both of them didnt like me, may be i wasnt too beautiful in their eyes.
Now a guy in my office loves me, i know he likes coz he is always around me and finding reasons to talk to me and giving out all signs.
But i dont know why i am not feeling the same for him. Is it because he is not handsom? or is it because of something else i dont know. But i am worried also beause if he propose and i dont accpet it will i be alone always?? WHat shall i do maam?

If he loves u i think u must select him as life partner!! Its better than waiting for another!! ANd if his love is sincere thats safe for u also!! But love cant be forced, final choice is urs!! We can only advice u the best
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rangnath · 04-11-2009, 06:20 PM

ITs always better to be with somebody who loves u than soembody whom u love..This guy is totally fallen for u.. and looks like a good match. But i wont force u because i think u dont like his physical appearance... If his character is good then u can give him a chance

jaggy_sa · 04-11-2009, 07:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gitika2287@zapakmail.com

Hi i am gitika 22 yrs old and working.
I am not a very attractive girl, but have lots of friends. Till now during my studies i have fallen in love with two guys but both of them didnt like me, may be i wasnt too beautiful in their eyes.
Now a guy in my office loves me, i know he likes coz he is always around me and finding reasons to talk to me and giving out all signs.
But i dont know why i am not feeling the same for him. Is it because he is not handsom? or is it because of something else i dont know. But i am worried also beause if he propose and i dont accpet it will i be alone always?? WHat shall i do maam?

Get close to him only if u love him... dont jumpt to marriage if u have such thoughts like he is not handome!!!!!
Because it will always be an irritating factor in ur mind.... first make sure if you love him or not!!!!

kimora · 04-11-2009, 08:15 PM

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Originally Posted by gitika2287@zapakmail.com

Hi i am gitika 22 yrs old and working.
I am not a very attractive girl, but have lots of friends. Till now during my studies i have fallen in love with two guys but both of them didnt like me, may be i wasnt too beautiful in their eyes.
Now a guy in my office loves me, i know he likes coz he is always around me and finding reasons to talk to me and giving out all signs.
But i dont know why i am not feeling the same for him. Is it because he is not handsom? or is it because of something else i dont know. But i am worried also beause if he propose and i dont accpet it will i be alone always?? WHat shall i do maam?

gawd thats the ugliest misery findig someone u dont want and not finding someone who u wanted terribly. well think b4 taking any step..thought of being left alone is rubbish,,dont agree with tht..dont go with the flow in da serious matters of life, this guy roamin around u can b a flirt too.. just tk ur time n see what he does next.atleast show on him tht u r not THAT KINDA GIRL who'll go out with him on dates n have affairs n sex etc..

death.wish18 · 04-11-2009, 09:57 PM

ummm....
u cant say tht u dnt lik th guy completely coz off his lookz....it may be evn tht he's nt interestin nd u might be not even findin him th one wth whom u can commit nd trust.....

stp fearin tht u would b alone coz god has made someone 4 evry1...nd itz better 2 stay alone than wth sum1 whom u dnt lik...

so take th decision wisely nd just dnt fear on nythng...

tak care

narayanhegde · 04-11-2009, 11:20 PM

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Originally Posted by gitika2287@zapakmail.com

Hi i am gitika 22 yrs old and working.
I am not a very attractive girl, but have lots of friends. Till now during my studies i have fallen in love with two guys but both of them didnt like me, may be i wasnt too beautiful in their eyes.
Now a guy in my office loves me, i know he likes coz he is always around me and finding reasons to talk to me and giving out all signs.
But i dont know why i am not feeling the same for him. Is it because he is not handsom? or is it because of something else i dont know. But i am worried also beause if he propose and i dont accpet it will i be alone always?? WHat shall i do maam?

If you are looking for marriage, then u must make sure u reall have love for this guy.. patching up to make a marriage will not last long.
So marry or go serious only and only if u love him.. not because u are afraid that u will be alone.

loojarsingh · 05-11-2009, 08:52 AM

u dont have to say yes! u will find love at the right time..dont think tht this is the end of the world. there is NO DEARTH of good guys.

champaklal · 05-11-2009, 09:24 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gitika2287@zapakmail.com

Hi i am gitika 22 yrs old and working.
I am not a very attractive girl, but have lots of friends. Till now during my studies i have fallen in love with two guys but both of them didnt like me, may be i wasnt too beautiful in their eyes.
Now a guy in my office loves me, i know he likes coz he is always around me and finding reasons to talk to me and giving out all signs.
But i dont know why i am not feeling the same for him. Is it because he is not handsom? or is it because of something else i dont know. But i am worried also beause if he propose and i dont accpet it will i be alone always?? WHat shall i do maam?

point is- does love happen with whom you want, or where you want, or when you want?

1. Evaluate the guy if he is good, caring, respecting everyone, is helpful, friendly, intelligent, or not

2. check the compatibility issues- he shouldn't look east when you wanna go west.

3. may be that in the beauty dept he is a no one, but in talent dept, he rocks, and why not! everyone has some streak of goodness.

Why is it that we still love people who don't love us?
So, should we love people who love us? yes, we should return
If so, should we love people who don't love us? why not!
Should people love me when I love them? Not necessary, don't care!

TarangMehta · 05-11-2009, 09:30 AM

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Originally Posted by gitika2287@zapakmail.com

Hi i am gitika 22 yrs old and working.
I am not a very attractive girl, but have lots of friends. Till now during my studies i have fallen in love with two guys but both of them didnt like me, may be i wasnt too beautiful in their eyes.
Now a guy in my office loves me, i know he likes coz he is always around me and finding reasons to talk to me and giving out all signs.
But i dont know why i am not feeling the same for him. Is it because he is not handsom? or is it because of something else i dont know. But i am worried also beause if he propose and i dont accpet it will i be alone always?? WHat shall i do maam?

Ask yourself whether you love this guy or not and then do things according to that. You couldnt find somebody according to ur wish till now, but that doesnt mean you are going to remain alone for ever. You will also find somebody which suits you.

ganesh111 · 05-11-2009, 07:23 PM

its true he loves u.. but for a relationship to be success both people must have love towards each other. U are not ok with him from whta u written here.. So eitehr try to know him better and see if u can find some good side of him, or wait till somebody comes who loves and whom u also love

pain! · 05-11-2009, 10:40 PM

YOu must try to find out whether he actually loves you or not, and whether he is serious. If thats his aim, you can go that path if you also feel the same, else i believe its best you avoid it. The reasons are two: you are not going to be alone just because you didnt like one guy or you think yourself as inattractive and secondly making up a relationship where there is no love is meaningless.Whatever the outcome of this episode may be you must mainly concentrate to develop a better self image.

siddharth3.5 · 06-11-2009, 05:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gitika2287@zapakmail.com

Hi i am gitika 22 yrs old and working.
I am not a very attractive girl, but have lots of friends. Till now during my studies i have fallen in love with two guys but both of them didnt like me, may be i wasnt too beautiful in their eyes.
Now a guy in my office loves me, i know he likes coz he is always around me and finding reasons to talk to me and giving out all signs.
But i dont know why i am not feeling the same for him. Is it because he is not handsom? or is it because of something else i dont know. But i am worried also beause if he propose and i dont accpet it will i be alone always?? WHat shall i do maam?

Why do u beleive u r not attracitve? its others who should determine it... have faith in urself, and ur appearances.
And its not looks that matters..but what kind of behaviour a person has is more important. Show the best of u to outside world... and u will find somebody whom u love soon

number1 · 08-11-2009, 03:52 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gitika2287@zapakmail.com

Hi i am gitika 22 yrs old and working.
I am not a very attractive girl, but have lots of friends. Till now during my studies i have fallen in love with two guys but both of them didnt like me, may be i wasnt too beautiful in their eyes.
Now a guy in my office loves me, i know he likes coz he is always around me and finding reasons to talk to me and giving out all signs.
But i dont know why i am not feeling the same for him. Is it because he is not handsom? or is it because of something else i dont know. But i am worried also beause if he propose and i dont accpet it will i be alone always?? WHat shall i do maam?

One problem u have is, u dont trust in u..... u r having low self esteem, especially about ur looks!!!!!
Dont judge urself on beauty, atleast not as bad...... let others do it!!!!!!!
Think urself as attractive whenever u look in mirror or when u think abou it........
And keep good company with everybody u will fidn the right person when its right time........

04-11-2009, 03:28 PM	#1
gitika2287@zapakmail.com Guest Posts: n/a	Finally a guy loves me, but i dont like him. Hi i am gitika 22 yrs old and working. I am not a very attractive girl, but have lots of friends. Till now during my studies i have fallen in love with two guys but both of them didnt like me, may be i wasnt too beautiful in their eyes. Now a guy in my office loves me, i know he likes coz he is always around me and finding reasons to talk to me and giving out all signs. But i dont know why i am not feeling the same for him. Is it because he is not handsom? or is it because of something else i dont know. But i am worried also beause if he propose and i dont accpet it will i be alone always?? WHat shall i do maam? Last edited by Preeto Maam; 04-11-2009 at 04:08 PM.

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04-11-2009, 04:02 PM	#2
Midnight Valentine New Born Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 87 Rep Power: 0	I feel that you should not only think about his looks...does he loves you truly? If he loves you and if you don't have much problem with his looks..you can give him and yourself a chance. One thing is for sure...if someone loves you ,it's not a very brilliant idea to let that person go.No matter how your boyfriend looks ,if he loves you ..you'll be happy!

04-11-2009, 06:20 PM	#4
rangnath Young Gun Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 202 Rep Power: 1	ITs always better to be with somebody who loves u than soembody whom u love..This guy is totally fallen for u.. and looks like a good match. But i wont force u because i think u dont like his physical appearance... If his character is good then u can give him a chance

04-11-2009, 09:57 PM	#7
death.wish18 Young Gun Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: i'm lost...can i come wth u?? Posts: 356 Rep Power: 2	ummm.... u cant say tht u dnt lik th guy completely coz off his lookz....it may be evn tht he's nt interestin nd u might be not even findin him th one wth whom u can commit nd trust..... stp fearin tht u would b alone coz god has made someone 4 evry1...nd itz better 2 stay alone than wth sum1 whom u dnt lik... so take th decision wisely nd just dnt fear on nythng... tak care

05-11-2009, 08:52 AM	#9
loojarsingh New Born Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 117 Rep Power: 1	u dont have to say yes! u will find love at the right time..dont think tht this is the end of the world. there is NO DEARTH of good guys.

05-11-2009, 07:23 PM	#12
ganesh111 Young Gun Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 388 Rep Power: 0	its true he loves u.. but for a relationship to be success both people must have love towards each other. U are not ok with him from whta u written here.. So eitehr try to know him better and see if u can find some good side of him, or wait till somebody comes who loves and whom u also love

05-11-2009, 10:40 PM	#13
pain! common man Lieutenant Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 5,050 Rep Power: 3	YOu must try to find out whether he actually loves you or not, and whether he is serious. If thats his aim, you can go that path if you also feel the same, else i believe its best you avoid it. The reasons are two: you are not going to be alone just because you didnt like one guy or you think yourself as inattractive and secondly making up a relationship where there is no love is meaningless.Whatever the outcome of this episode may be you must mainly concentrate to develop a better self image.