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Old 25-09-2009, 11:09 PM   #1
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Hello
I am in 12th standard and I go to institute 4 days for 4 hrs each day in a week. There is a girl in my institute whom I like since 11th std.
She is such a simple girl that I never ever thought dirty about her and I respect her a lot.
We talk about studies, daily lives and everything like friends. I am the only guy she talks with. Everyday she brings chocolates or toffees and she offers it to me only. But I dont know whether we are friends or not. I want to ask for her phone no. But I dont want anything that she may feel bad about it or think like I am advancing the limits. I also dont want to do the same but everyday I think what will happen after 2months, i.e when the classes will be over and we will goo in different ways. I am afraid I will lose contact with her. I want her in my life always and I love her a lot.
I asked for her email Id and she gave but said that she comes online once after about 3 months. So is there any way how to make her a friend of mine or is she already a friend and talk to her after 2 months without getting an impression of "undecent boy". We share each others thoughts, laugh and everything but in a formal way. I dont want to lose her after 2 months

One more thing
> she looks like this and smiles whenever she sees me everyday. But no hi hellos b/w us.

And dont think that my studies are affected because I just concentrate on studying when I get down to work




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[B]]Hi
I asked for her no.
I sent her many Happy Diwali messages,
and no reply came from her
She is not even talking to me herself in the institute
I knew it will happen. Now what to do?
She thinks me of a bad guy
Few days are left!

I WANT TO CRY!

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Old 26-09-2009, 02:14 PM   #2
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are u asking if she is love with or u want to know if she is ur friend............ anyways....... this is how friends are...... this is how gals behave when they are friends with guy or anyone......... so yeah she is a friend of urs......... and since u have been sharing a lot with her...... u can ask for her number directly.......... or even uc an say that since we are friends and in no time this 2 months will pass out and we will loose contact and so if u can have her number........... i dont think so she will mind it.......... but its better to ask than loosing contact with her.............

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Old 28-09-2009, 12:15 AM   #3
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^^she might have consumed her own (since you siad she brings chocs & shares wid me) & and might have become calorie concious.

On a serious note if you are good freinds and talk a lot and share your feelings ther is no harm in asking for her no.But remember dont bug her later with your calls

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Old 29-09-2009, 01:35 AM   #4
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Wat if she dont give her no?
Ill be left high and dry
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Old 29-09-2009, 10:43 AM   #5
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Wat if she dont give her no?
Ill be left high and dry
well dude if this is attitude then definitely she won`t give her no. 2 U

tumne toh pehle hi hathyar dal diye.

try kar kam bana toh thik warna koi aur sahi.
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Old 20-10-2009, 11:06 PM   #6
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Hi
I asked for her no.
I sent her many Happy Diwali messages,
and no reply came from her
She is not even talking to me herself in the institute
I knew it will happen. Now what to do?
She thinks me of a bad guy
Few days are left!
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Old 21-10-2009, 03:24 PM   #7
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About NO-Reply to ur msg ! She might have deleted it unconciously, like I some times do. If she is serious....let her feel it....dont show ur face to her for a few days and next see what her reaction is ..... u will get some idea. If she even doesn't ask where were you,why u didn't come for few days ....then note it that she has no feelings for u...else she likes u.
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Old 21-10-2009, 10:52 PM   #8
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Old 22-10-2009, 01:28 PM   #9
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did you cry when you killed that innocent fellow on the road ?? no you didn't, you just ran away without taking responsibility. i know it wasn't fake question, learn to be responsible and caring and things will improve!
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Old 23-10-2009, 07:44 PM   #11
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did you cry when you killed that innocent fellow on the road ?? no you didn't, you just ran away without taking responsibility. i know it wasn't fake question, learn to be responsible and caring and things will improve!
Come on
Check it out. If it wasnt fake, then why would I declare it is even if nobody known to me is in SB forums. I drive responsibly and gently. I am a simple guy but just thought what if it happened

Well it is appreciable that you have a sharp memory.
But believ me, it never happened


[b]Please believe me, this time i am in genuine pain
Please solve
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Old 03-11-2009, 09:44 PM   #12
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Old 03-11-2009, 10:19 PM   #13
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Mam i m awaiting you reply
Hey..if you could tell what exactly you want..you could be helped better...If you want to enter into a relationship..you must ask her then..If she says no..you can't do anything and that will be the end...If you could face rejection..if you are strong enough..give it a try.

You are in 12th now....there's a lott time remaining buddy..when i was in 10th..i too loved a girl..and felt that she's the one for me...etc..etc...now she's out of my mind..she don't even exist for me now..i didn't propose her or anything..i controlled my emotions and as time passed by I realized that it was nothing.So..talk to her and say that if she felt bad about you sending messages to her..then you won't do it again...

It's cool buddy..no need to cry....Be A Man.
If you still have something to ask..plz do
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