why it happens?????

k.kong7931 · 02-11-2009, 11:28 PM

hi maam...im in a complication..during my early teens i focused much on studies so that i can become a succesful person first n then have a girlfren...bt now after achieving academic success m running short on the other matter...and now loking into my other frens life they had aal the things with them a good job plus the beautiful ladies to flirt with..i feel i wasted my years in buks n academics when others have a more joyous life..i feel very disgusted now what to do?

**Preeto Maam** · 03-11-2009, 12:32 PM

Just wait! its very early as yet. You have not wasted your life at all. in fact, you have been very sensible. there is a time and a place for everything. You have been successful in your studies, and now you can afford to look at friendships and fun. It will happen now that you are ready for it!

Midnight Valentine · 03-11-2009, 12:58 PM

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Originally Posted by k.kong7931

hi maam...im in a complication..during my early teens i focused much on studies so that i can become a succesful person first n then have a girlfren...bt now after achieving academic success m running short on the other matter...and now loking into my other frens life they had aal the things with them a good job plus the beautiful ladies to flirt with..i feel i wasted my years in buks n academics when others have a more joyous life..i feel very disgusted now what to do?

you are not alone....looks like I too have done the same thing...

enjoy_lol · 03-11-2009, 01:05 PM

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Originally Posted by k.kong7931

hi maam...im in a complication..during my early teens i focused much on studies so that i can become a succesful person first n then have a girlfren...bt now after achieving academic success m running short on the other matter...and now loking into my other frens life they had aal the things with them a good job plus the beautiful ladies to flirt with..i feel i wasted my years in buks n academics when others have a more joyous life..i feel very disgusted now what to do?

Well after being sensible for all these years what makes u rush into things......... or is that ur sensible with ur studies and not with relations........... if u just want to flirt with gals........... the way u described urself ...having success in ur academics and might be having a good job........ be sure that in no time u will have loads of gals to flirt with......... if that is what u want than ur in the right position........... how can one waste life after achieving success............. just becuase u dnt have gals to flirt............ get it correct............. if at that is what all u want......... all is not lost............ but ur in the frame to have gals to flirt with............... just w8............. and u'll be busy flirting.........

all the best

god bless u

a_decent_1 · 03-11-2009, 05:17 PM

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Originally Posted by k.kong7931

hi maam...im in a complication..during my early teens i focused much on studies so that i can become a succesful person first n then have a girlfren...bt now after achieving academic success m running short on the other matter...and now loking into my other frens life they had aal the things with them a good job plus the beautiful ladies to flirt with..i feel i wasted my years in buks n academics when others have a more joyous life..i feel very disgusted now what to do?

LOLxxx,

Wasted..? How old are you..? 70 years..?

Mate, Girls come when they ought to come. !! Having a girlfriend does not mean you are happy. Get over it..!! Meet people who have had Break-Ups, they'll let you know how good your life is.

G'day

theachiever · 03-11-2009, 05:31 PM

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Originally Posted by k.kong7931

hi maam...im in a complication..during my early teens i focused much on studies so that i can become a succesful person first n then have a girlfren...bt now after achieving academic success m running short on the other matter...and now loking into my other frens life they had aal the things with them a good job plus the beautiful ladies to flirt with..i feel i wasted my years in buks n academics when others have a more joyous life..i feel very disgusted now what to do?

dude your decision was the right one..............as maam said there is time for everything.........now its time you build your career and become a repsonsible individual as ur parents might have dreamt of and with those expectations they r educating u....don loose focus from it do find a girl after you are done with ur academics and after bcoming a self made individual ...............

k.kong7931 · 03-11-2009, 11:25 PM

hi maam thanks for ur guidance bt sometimes the feeling gets trobled when see someone having aal the luxuries in life so easily ...any how thnx for help i will keep ur words in mind .

Lisbonstar28 · 04-11-2009, 01:13 AM

Pity that you didn't possess the caliber nor had the guts to handle both studying and a stable relationship during your schooling years. Why on earth you thought not to - I could only guess.... I mean; it wasn't as if your girlfriend was going to get in the way of your studying and tear up your books now was she...!

Those times are precious and carefree and you should have had an equilibrium of both worlds ! Should've studied hard and played even harder !

Anyway's enough said.....! I reckon it's now high time you learned to have a good time ! Stop being so square and loosen up... start hanging around with girls without trying to hit on them, just treat them as friends.....you'll soon develop the gift of the gab .

To think that you have missed out forever is kind of absurd and quite comical in fact ....you have only yet just "discovered " yourself .

Best of luck - i mean it !

prakash27 · 04-11-2009, 06:24 AM

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Originally Posted by k.kong7931

hi maam...im in a complication..during my early teens i focused much on studies so that i can become a succesful person first n then have a girlfren...bt now after achieving academic success m running short on the other matter...and now loking into my other frens life they had aal the things with them a good job plus the beautiful ladies to flirt with..i feel i wasted my years in buks n academics when others have a more joyous life..i feel very disgusted now what to do?

Spending time for studies is never a waste!! Its ur asset for ever, evenif u lose everything else no body can take away what u have learned!! Achieve a successful career with what u learned and girlfriends and guy friends will come automatically to u!!
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death.wish18 · 04-11-2009, 11:08 AM

buddy,

stp worryin...u actually did th right thng nd first focused on th education nd establishing ur career nd then tryin 2 startin up wth a relationship.....ths hard work will definitely pay u back nd will evn surely pay u in a form of a wonderful lover.....

dnt get disheartened...jst thnk tht u r jst nt able 2 catch th glimpse of ur dream queen....

tak care

02-11-2009, 11:28 PM	#1
k.kong7931 New Born Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 4 Rep Power: 0	why it happens????? hi maam...im in a complication..during my early teens i focused much on studies so that i can become a succesful person first n then have a girlfren...bt now after achieving academic success m running short on the other matter...and now loking into my other frens life they had aal the things with them a good job plus the beautiful ladies to flirt with..i feel i wasted my years in buks n academics when others have a more joyous life..i feel very disgusted now what to do?

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03-11-2009, 12:32 PM	#2
Preeto Maam Moderator Lieutenant General Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 44,182 Rep Power: 34	Just wait! its very early as yet. You have not wasted your life at all. in fact, you have been very sensible. there is a time and a place for everything. You have been successful in your studies, and now you can afford to look at friendships and fun. It will happen now that you are ready for it!

03-11-2009, 11:25 PM	#7
k.kong7931 New Born Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 4 Rep Power: 0	hi maam thanks for ur guidance bt sometimes the feeling gets trobled when see someone having aal the luxuries in life so easily ...any how thnx for help i will keep ur words in mind .

04-11-2009, 01:13 AM	#8
Lisbonstar28 SB Champion Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Free falling Posts: 1,848 Rep Power: 6	Pity that you didn't possess the caliber nor had the guts to handle both studying and a stable relationship during your schooling years. Why on earth you thought not to - I could only guess.... I mean; it wasn't as if your girlfriend was going to get in the way of your studying and tear up your books now was she...! Those times are precious and carefree and you should have had an equilibrium of both worlds ! Should've studied hard and played even harder ! Anyway's enough said.....! I reckon it's now high time you learned to have a good time ! Stop being so square and loosen up... start hanging around with girls without trying to hit on them, just treat them as friends.....you'll soon develop the gift of the gab . To think that you have missed out forever is kind of absurd and quite comical in fact ....you have only yet just "discovered " yourself . Best of luck - i mean it !

04-11-2009, 11:08 AM	#10
death.wish18 Young Gun Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: i'm lost...can i come wth u?? Posts: 356 Rep Power: 2	buddy, stp worryin...u actually did th right thng nd first focused on th education nd establishing ur career nd then tryin 2 startin up wth a relationship.....ths hard work will definitely pay u back nd will evn surely pay u in a form of a wonderful lover..... dnt get disheartened...jst thnk tht u r jst nt able 2 catch th glimpse of ur dream queen.... tak care