Initially he told me that he would not let me wear revealing clothes, to which i agreed, because, I myself don't like to show off my body in a bad way.. Then gradually, he wud himself buy me dresses without sleeves and tops as well. He also brought me shorts and skirts. I was very happy , that he does not have any more problems and as long as he himself buys me stuff, Its alright. then suddenly yesterday, we were shopping for his function and i wanted to buy dress....He told me that ' buy something with sleeves' ...I had not problem, but then he said ' I would never let you wear sleeveless or dresses with bare legs' .. We were at the shop , so i didn't exaggerate he issue. But I don't understand his on & off opinions. It pisses me off, but I don't say anything ...because it can lead to a fight, big time.
Now, I will tell you a bit about his personality....He is very strict, mostly isolated from outer world, deep thinker, has zero sense of humor, very judgmental ( specially towards women...he judges them from their appearance a lot) . He has low self esteem and very protective of me. ...I am just saying these things so you can have a wee bit of understanding ab his nature and give me your opinion. I know , some people will be like ' why did you marry him?' ...but guys, you don't know everything ab a person when you first marry them...living with them will tell you more about their personality.
So, I really want to wear at least decent clothes, that I like..specially if i am living in western world, where people are very flexible and I see many Desi girls, wearing revealing clothes here. please how can I convince him or change him? I am not asking for something big? am I?
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