Things are getting out of my Control.

[Tammanah]

Hi!

6 years back i met a guy A.. We started liking each other.. He introduced me to his family members.. After few days me and his uncles son became very good friends. Great compatibility.. Then we used to chat daily. I knew he was in love with me. But Mr.A also loved me.. He spoke to his parents and proposed me. i liked his bro more. but he had a past.. he told me about all the ladies in his life. I thought he wasn't a stable person. moreover i really liked MR A as he was mature, decent, stable and i respected him a lot. He has always been there through my ups and downs.I made a decision and said yes to mr A. Moreover, his bro also came to know that he is going to propose me n maybe stepped back. so it was all over.. N today i m married to MR A. Me and Mr a have been a Wonderfull couple in the eyes of everyone.. but have had many fights internally.. our way of living, our nature are very different. we argue over many small issues. but we grew up with time.

Me and this bro have always been in touch as very good friends. discussed many issues n his gfs that followed :P And he is married now. We met in many family gatherings.. but there has always been a spark btw us.. we both know! This time we met at a family gathering and had a party for the bride and groom.. everyone was drunk after the party.. He came to me and confessed his feeling in tears.. n told me why he dint tell me years back n i have always been on his mind but he did not realize. after that day also we continued chatting.. now the chats that were occasional became everyday routine.. they changed from good friends chatting to to some romantic chats... to why don't i have u in my life chats.. Now i know what i m doing in wrong, but he is like an addiction to me. i feel guilty for the emotional attachment we share

[Preeto Maam]

Okay! You do know that you are playing with fire, don't you? See, in marriages, we grow used to our partners so disagreements and arguments are natural, but do you really want to lose the strong bond and security you have in your marriage because you are attracted to this guy? You know the answer to that!
its really too complicated and intertwined to even consider. Take a chill pill and be sensible about this. Let good sense prevail over the emotions, will you?

[ariesgirl]

Work on your marriage rather than trying to find solace in someone else's arms... Go on a trip with your husband,spend some quality time,shower him with attention,cook his favourite dishes,give surprise gifts... In short rekindle the romance with your husband... Forget the other guy... You would feel exactly like this after a few months even if you marry the other man... So work on the marriage,that's the man God chose for you...

[rv102938]

well, you have two scenarios -
1) dont indulge in this stuff....live the boring, but stable life happily (well sort of, semi-happily) without any stress or worries

2) continue with this. it wont just stop at this level. eventually you might end up doing dhiching dhiching with each other. tension but excitement as well. human mind loves the thrill, wants to do what is taboo. he cuming inside you before your husband coming. you having children and not knowing who their real father is. opportunities are endless. but there will come one day when you might regret and hate yourself.

3) this does not feasible looking at your query, but just want to put for completeness is getting divorces and marrying.

before you take any step, think about your loved ones - parents, husband, future children....and then go for your option.

[o00]

Why do you talk to him if you feel guilty about it? Wait for when the stuff hits the fan.

[jamesreallybond007]

A perfect suggestions for characterless people like you....


get lost and go build a character first.. cheater

[ickon2004]

St0p !!

[QUOTE=Tammanah;7024694]Hi!

6 years back i met a guy A.. We started liking each other.. He introduced me to his family members.. After few days me and his uncles son became very good friends. Great compatibility.. Then we used to chat daily. I knew he was in love with me. But Mr.A also loved me.. He spoke to his parents and proposed me. i liked his bro more. but he had a past.. he told me about all the ladies in his life. I thought he wasn't a stable person. moreover i really liked MR A as he was mature, decent, stable and i respected him a lot. He has always been there through my ups and downs.I made a decision and said yes to mr A. Moreover, his bro also came to know that he is going to propose me n maybe stepped back. so it was all over.. N today i m married to MR A. Me and Mr a have been a Wonderfull couple in the eyes of everyone.. but have had many fights internally.. our way of living, our nature are very different. we argue over many small issues. but we grew up with time.

Me and this bro have always been in touch as very good friends. discussed many issues n his gfs that followed :P And he is married now. We met in many family gatherings.. but there has always been a spark btw us.. we both know! This time we met at a family gathering and had a party for the bride and groom.. everyone was drunk after the party.. He came to me and confessed his feeling in tears.. n told me why he dint tell me years back n i have always been on his mind but he did not realize. after that day also we continued chatting.. now the chats that were occasional became everyday routine.. they changed from good friends chatting to to some romantic chats... to why don't i have u in my life chats.. Now i know what i m doing in wrong, but he is like an addiction to me. i feel guilty for the emotional attachment we share [/Q

put a stop to ur chats , tell him ur married and keep him away from u , detach urself from this romantic chats , focus more on ur married life than this guy ,dont entertain him at all , dont mess with ur life , dont invite trouble for urself.

[mysticmantra]

Hi!

6 years back i met a guy A.. We started liking each other.. He introduced me to his family members.. After few days me and his uncles son became very good friends. Great compatibility.. Then we used to chat daily. I knew he was in love with me. But Mr.A also loved me.. He spoke to his parents and proposed me. i liked his bro more. but he had a past.. he told me about all the ladies in his life. I thought he wasn't a stable person. moreover i really liked MR A as he was mature, decent, stable and i respected him a lot. He has always been there through my ups and downs.I made a decision and said yes to mr A. Moreover, his bro also came to know that he is going to propose me n maybe stepped back. so it was all over.. N today i m married to MR A. Me and Mr a have been a Wonderfull couple in the eyes of everyone.. but have had many fights internally.. our way of living, our nature are very different. we argue over many small issues. but we grew up with time.

Me and this bro have always been in touch as very good friends. discussed many issues n his gfs that followed :P And he is married now. We met in many family gatherings.. but there has always been a spark btw us.. we both know! This time we met at a family gathering and had a party for the bride and groom.. everyone was drunk after the party.. He came to me and confessed his feeling in tears.. n told me why he dint tell me years back n i have always been on his mind but he did not realize. after that day also we continued chatting.. now the chats that were occasional became everyday routine.. they changed from good friends chatting to to some romantic chats... to why don't i have u in my life chats.. Now i know what i m doing in wrong, but he is like an addiction to me. i feel guilty for the emotional attachment we share

stay away from fire it will burn u. when u ppl had options u both didnt utilise it. now its too late. one mistake can ruin life of four ppl. think abt his wife and forget him and ask separation amicably so that both couples can live happy life.