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    Hello Mam ,
    My Problem is that i am surrounded by mean friends . for example i have friend who lives in my society and i know him from childhood . since we grew up i noticed that he's such a mean guy . whenever he's stuck in a situation no matter how small or big it is he just call me . he has a lot of friends from his college who have their own car and bikes but he always hopes for me to come . i've said him many times on his ugly face that you are really mean and your KARMA will teach you a lesson someday so its better for you to be a helping hand as well for other including me . once he sent a message asking me to pick him up from the metro station and i replied saying to call your frnds from college may be they have pick and drop service .

    Another friend during my graduation . he was doing animation as well so he had to make a short film for his assignment . so i went with him early morning for that film . but the next day he asked me to come again . then i realised that during the time of graduation he too had a lot of friends but anytime he needed a help he always called me AND whenever i need him he was never there even once . So next day i refused to come lying that i was sick and from that moment it has been 2 yrs he didnt called or texted me once . (**** HIM)

    What should be the best way to deal with this kind of situation again ? i dont want to feel like a toy .

  • #2
    Ya, well, no one likes to be taken for granted or for a ride, and you are no different. See, friends are there for each other, not just to use each other at their convenience and discard them when they feel that they are not needed. So, its better to stick to a few friends rather than have a lot of meaningless relationships in your life.
    Just be polite in your refusal when you feel that you are being taken for a ride and you should be all right.

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    • #3
      Be mean in return.
      You never know what you can become ..

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      • #4
        there are mainly two ways...ignore and block!
        Give people roses while they can still smell them. . .

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        • #5
          Originally posted by iamsolonely View Post
          What should be the best way to deal with this kind of situation again ? i dont want to feel like a toy .
          stop judging others and forming opinions on what others should do. you do what you want, they will do what they want. if you really dont want to help them because you "think" they are mean, then dont. thats the best way to deal with the situation.

          but from your query, it didnt look like they are mean. you say they have many other friends, thats your judgement. maybe these guys dont consider other perople as their close friends. second thing, which you have not mentioned in the query, did these guys help you when you asked them? if they did, they they are not mean. but ofc, your answer will be they did not.
          Ek din sher banke jeene se behtar hai do din sher banke jiyo...

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          • #6
            Originally posted by iamsolonely View Post
            Hello Mam ,
            My Problem is that i am surrounded by mean friends . for example i have friend who lives in my society and i know him from childhood . since we grew up i noticed that he's such a mean guy . whenever he's stuck in a situation no matter how small or big it is he just call me . he has a lot of friends from his college who have their own car and bikes but he always hopes for me to come . i've said him many times on his ugly face that you are really mean and your KARMA will teach you a lesson someday so its better for you to be a helping hand as well for other including me . once he sent a message asking me to pick him up from the metro station and i replied saying to call your frnds from college may be they have pick and drop service .

            Another friend during my graduation . he was doing animation as well so he had to make a short film for his assignment . so i went with him early morning for that film . but the next day he asked me to come again . then i realised that during the time of graduation he too had a lot of friends but anytime he needed a help he always called me AND whenever i need him he was never there even once . So next day i refused to come lying that i was sick and from that moment it has been 2 yrs he didnt called or texted me once . (**** HIM)

            What should be the best way to deal with this kind of situation again ? i dont want to feel like a toy .
            I think ur expecting things in return. yes ur friends are mean and utilising u but it upon u to be utilised or not. bluntly say and dont help. dont have u for granted.

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            • #7
              dekh bhai, Expectations Hurt, and they hurt really bad.
              so only two solutions can be there,
              1st - Either you stop being good
              or
              2nd - you stop expecting that others will behave good to you coz u were good to them.

              And building expectations is not something we always do explicitly. Many times it is in a subconscious mind. Suppose in a crowded metro you leave your seat for a middle aged lady. There is automatically an expectation that she would atleast smile as a courtesy if not say thanks . But many times i have seen, they not even look at you after happily taking your seats. Such people do exist. Males, females, young, old , village, urban - everywhere you will find such people who take your good nature for granted.
              The only way for you to get mental peace if, either tone down your good nature or just forget it entirely and be prepared even before doing that good act, that you will not get anything in return as an acknowledgement.

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